Of course you are capable of working through things yourself. Just like anything in life, if we invest enough time and energy into things we will find answers. But the truth is... trying to figure things out alone can be a much longer and painful journey. Insights developed in coaching within a 6 week period may take 10 years for a client to come to alone. We all have responsibilities, jobs and lives and as humans, it is incredibly difficult to stay on track with new goals without accountability and without someone to help us see a different perspective, challenge our blind spots and without having a sounding board to talk through thoughts, ideas and emotions.
If you have been feeling dissatisfied for a while and feel stuck, ask yourself why you are resistant to seeking help. For example: do you have a belief that someone who is deemed as 'capable and strong' must figure things out alone? Or maybe you are not used to investing in your growth but would easily drop a large sum of money on a holiday or a gift.
Remember that you are very capable of doing amazing things but once you learn to lean on others, you realise you can achieve even greater things with half the effort, half the time.